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Your #1 New Year's Resolution

"Every moment is a fresh beginning." -T.S. Eliot

Little Gems of Wisdom & Fun from Mary Lynn Ziemer

As we embark on a new year, many of us use this opportunity to create new goals or "resolutions" for ourselves. But, there is one resolution that should be first and foremost. It will help the others flow effortlessly! This most important resolution should be to keep your "love tank" full every day. What do I mean by "love tank"? This is the personal source of calm, energy, focus, and power deep within you. When your "love tank" is full, you are able to accomplish literally anything you set your mind to. And filling this "love tank" starts with focusing your thoughts, words, time, energy, and actions on things that bring you joy. It allows you to have an abundance of love available for yourself and others. It makes certain that you always feel great, knowing that there is an unlimited source of love all around you. You just have to see it, know it, and feel it to take full advantage of the Power that LOVE is. When we have a "full love tank", we live in the flow, feel happy, our minds are calm, and we know that we have the power to quickly create the outcomes we truly desire. One of the key ingredients to inner happiness is setting intentions, or "goals," for yourself. (These can be New Year's resolutions, or simply new goals any time of the year!) These goals should excite you when you think about them. These should be intentions that are yours and make your heart sing. When we have goals that make us feel good, we also feel alive and empowered. We make better decisions for ourselves and we feel more fulfilled and inspired to take the actions necessary to realize them. If you want to achieve the life that you will love this year, you’ll need to start with a blank piece of paper. You can use this as your creative palate and fill it up with amazing things. Be sure they feel so good that you can easily imagine how much fun you’ll have as you dream about them now. You must feel how good it feels NOW as you visualize them, and anytime you think about them in the next, present moment. The next thing you need to do is feel lots of gratitude for what you have already. We have so much! It would take a long time to truly express our gratitude and appreciation for everything we already have. And feeling good about everything in this present moment is crucial. Attach yourself to love and know that everything is possible!

For example...

If you want to create more money, you must feel good about money. You must feel only gratitude for the money you have now. Then, you must feel good about the money that others are making for themselves. You are happy for them. As you think about them, you send them loving thoughts for more prosperity. You are happy to pay for everything that serves you. You think so abundantly that all things are worth what you spend on them. If you want more clients, you express gratitude for the clients you have today. Then, you take the action with joy to grow your client base. You must feel good in the process of moving forward. Only feeling love can move you forward, so your love tank needs to be tended to consistently, and constantly filled. If you want better health, find things to be grateful for with your health today. What does your body allow you do that you can be grateful for? Can you walk or run? Do you have arms that can hug your friends, partner, family, or pet? Do you have hands that allow you type, draw, and pick things up? Also, how can you have fun with a situation that you would like to be different? First, you must be lighter about it. The list is endless when it comes to seeing the perfection of what we already have in front of us. Begin to send love to your body for all it allows you to do today. Then, focus on fun and start with the little things, recognizing the blessings that exist in the current situation. They are there. You just have to look for them.

Imagine it, then achieve it!

Remember, our imaginations play a crucial role in our creative ability. If we want to create miracles in our lives, we have to use our feelings to the greatest advantage. It is the feeling of love that fuels creation.

While positive thoughts are very important (they have emotions attached to them that make us feel good or not), the way to achieving our goals most quickly is by feeling love and gratitude all day long for everything and everyone, including you, and receiving it in return. As you concentrate on feeling good with each experience throughout your day, you will be sure to think positive thoughts and deepen good feelings. These good feelings of love allow you use your imagination to its fullest.

As Dr. Jill Bolte-Taylor once said: “We are feeling beings who think." And, we think in pictures. Words simply translate into a picture. So, when we feel lots of love for what’s right in front of us, we become calm. And in our calmness, our imagination expands. We see a picture of what we want, and that huge amount of love that we feel fuels its creation. Our imaginations expand, allowing us to know that we can create it as it feels soooo good. Last but not least, if you want this year to be the best year of your life, you must concentrate on the most important person in your life... you! You must recognize the truth... that you are amazing and brilliant in your own right. You need to see how incredible you are and love yourself more than you ever have. You need to truly concentrate on feeling more love in your heart for you, and for everyone and everything, so that you recognize the Infinite Source of Power that resides within you... LOVE that is you. You will then be able to feel love for EVERYTHING that you see, hear, taste, touch, smell, and think about. If you have not yet downloaded my New Year’s gift, here it is:

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You are powerful in the act of creating a joyful fun life based on how you feel as you choose your thoughts, words, actions, in each moment of your day. So, what should your number one New Year’s resolution be? It's should be to FEEL more love and have more fun than ever!

Have an absolutely magical day full of love, gratitude and fun, fun, FUN!

~Mary Lynn Ziemer

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