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You're in Control! Keep Your Finger on the Switch.

"Our key to transforming anything lies in our ability to reframe it." ~Marianne Williamson

Little Gems of Wisdom & Fun from Mary Lynn Ziemer

One of the most important things to remember is that YOU are in control of every situation you are in, simply by how you choose to view and respond to it. It's amazing how powerful we can be when we learn to change the entire situation and outcome by "Flipping the Switch" to Joy. It is time to feel empowered, take charge, and assume a leadership position in your own life.  How?

Reframe and Refocus.

How can you think over and over again about something that is bothering you and expect a new outcome?  If you continue to think the same way, again and again, about the same situation, you will not find the truth or the answer that you seek. However, when you shift your focus, or "flip the switch", a whole universe of possibilities will open up for you.

Whatever you focus on is what you get more of.  So, when you are focusing on the most ideal outcome, you will feel empowered and strong in the knowledge of who you really are. That feels so much better. It’s in these loving feelings that the true power resides. So, to experience a state of physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being, you must let go of anything else and shift forward to what you really want!

 Anytime you have a situation in your life that you want to change, or take to the next (fun) level, be sure to consciously give up anything that is not helping you. Let it go, surrender it up to the universe, give it away, and be persistent in this task! Sometimes a good cry, or even a good laugh, will allow you to release it!

Then, ask yourself this very important question:  "What would I like the outcome of this situation to be?"  Ask your intuition to show you the way with complete clarity. As you repeatedly release feelings and shift your focus from the emotion of what you have in front of you, to picturing what you truly desire, you will feel better and become calmer. You must truly leave the old emotion in the past, where it belongs. The better feeling is one of love flowing through you, and taking you to calm. That calmness is the key success factor to accomplishing what you really want. Calmness is the magical mindset. 

So, what is it that you truly desire?  More money?  A deep, loving relationship? Improved health for yourself or someone else?  That wonderful job that makes your heart sing? Fill in the blank here______. Whatever it is, know that it is all possible!

You have the incredible power to create your life, experience by experience... the way you want it to be.  You can shift to what you want.  You can feel the happiness, the joy, and the enthusiasm of your natural self for your life.  Or, you can do the opposite. Which will it be?  You cannot have both at the same time.

Only in calm can you find the Truth that will relieve you of your burden.  Only in peace will you see the clarity of the situation.

And only in harmony will you experience your true desires.

Today, be consciously aware of how you feel and empower yourself by making the most self-loving choices. All expectations take the same amount of effort and time, so make them only positive and exciting. Put your complete focus on anticipating what you really want, in every segment of your day. Imagine whatever it is that you have in front of you going well.

Dwell on the outcome of your choice!

Suggested Affirmation:  

"I am so grateful that everything goes well for me and everyone else in my life today.  I am so grateful that today is the best day of my life. I feel more love and I have more fun than ever!"

Have an absolutely magical week full of love, gratitude, and fun, fun, FUN!

~Mary Lynn Ziemer

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