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What is Your "Self-Love Language"?

"Self-love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself."

Little Gems of Wisdom & Fun from Mary Lynn Ziemer

You may already be familiar with the "five love languages." These are five different ways of expressing and receiving love. The concept of love languages was developed by Gary Chapman, Ph.D., in his book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts. In this book, he describes five unique styles of communicating love, using categories he created from his experience in marriage counseling and linguistics. Not everyone communicates love in the same way, and likewise, people have different ways they prefer to receive love. But, just as important (if not more important) as understanding how we best receive love from others, is understanding our best forms of giving and receiving self-love! It's so important to always operate from a full "love-tank". And we are the ones responsible for keeping our own love tank full! When we do this, love will be overflowing, we feel amazing, and we have even more love to give to others. First, it’s imperative that we understand that we must love ourselves simply because we exist! You are an amazing, magnificent creative being living a physical life. You are brilliant, incredible, and curious. This most amazing and wondrous you that always exists at your core, the part that wants you to experience bliss and joy in your life, is always guiding you to grow. So, what is your "Self-Love Language"? We created this fun, simple, quiz to help you figure it out. It only takes a minute or two to complete. So, have fun, learn a little more about yourself and the forms of self-love that you are most receptive to. Share this quiz with friends, family, co-workers, and anyone else who might enjoy it!

Remember, that core part of you, whatever name you call it (Source of Infinite Power, Soul, Spirit, Universe, Higher Self etc.), wants you to realize the power that you possess. You know this power when you feel love, when you are calm. Because you are the one shaping and creating your life, you must love yourself consistently and intensely in the best sense of these words. When you feel lots of love for yourself, then for everyone and everything in your life, you will deepen your calm and experience the true power of your mind. So, who are you? How can we even begin to imagine the power that we truly possess within? Maybe your understanding of who you are is rooted in traditional religious beliefs or maybe you lean more toward the side of science and evolution. Whatever the case, we are clearly incredible beings with far more power than we’ve understood or have been taught. In fact, If you’d like to watch an incredible scientific documentary about the “Superhuman” power that we all possess, check out Superhuman, The Invisible Made Visible (you can watch it free on Amazon Prime.)

Now with all of this in mind, ask yourself how you can love yourself more? As you love yourself more than ever before, you will see all the beauty around you and in everyone and everything. This is how you increase your personal power to levels you have likely never imagined before! Not only can you create everything your heart truly desires, but you will begin to know your superhuman powers too. Now this is a truly magical life! So, what is your "Self-Love Language"? Once you've taken the quiz, you can start implementing some of the examples right away. Start today!! Fill your love tank to overflowing! And don't forget to spread the love even more by sharing this email with friends, family, and co-workers. :)

Have an absolutely magical week full of love, gratitude and fun, fun, FUN!

~Mary Lynn Ziemer

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