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What Did You Say? (Choose Your Words Wisely!)

“If you believe in the power of words, you can bring about physical changes in the universe.” H. Scott Momaday​

Little Gems of Wisdom & Fun from Mary Lynn Ziemer

Have you ever noticed when there is a particular topic of conversation that you have been sharing, the situation or thing that you’ve been talking about mysteriously shows up! Sometimes multiple times!

This is because words are EXTREMELY powerful... more powerful than you can imagine!

How does it work?

It’s profoundly simple. Words are a means for us to express and describe our experiences to others. And words always have emotion attached to them. As we've discussed, our feelings are constantly creating our lives. So, the words we use, especially when spoken repeatedly, deepen our feelings and ultimately become our experience. Our words amplify how we feel about the subject of the conversation.

Why is that? The repetition of the words describing a situation are taking root within your belief system. Then, the added attention and focus with all of that emotion attached is causing the content of your belief to show up again and again.

Let me say it again. Words are EXTREMELY powerful! Every time we repeat a story of something that has happened to us, or talk about a subject matter, a person, or a thing, our feelings about it is getting stronger and stronger. After repeating something a few times, those feelings have intensified considerably.

Use your words to uplift others and create what you want.

Ask yourself this question. Do you want to create more of the things that you are talking about? If yes, keep going. Keep talking about them. If you prefer another outcome, say nothing about the current reality that you are experiencing. This doesn’t mean you can’t ask for help when you’d like to have it. It’s all in how you frame it.

Use the power of your words and emotions to get what you want by flipping the switch to a more joyful outcome. Let go of the current reality and begin to focus on the solution that you’d like to create. Put in your mind what you would like to happen instead, and play that perfect scenario over and over again in your mind until it feels wonderful. When you can feel it, you can create it! Remember to stay in your heart to create the calm mindset. Ultimately, the miracle occurs in the stillness.

Try these tips to make the most of your powerful words.

  • Take time to filter your thoughts before you speak them.

  • Speak words that make you feel joyful and loving, especially around areas of your life that you want to improve.

  • Make note of any successes or improvements (big or small) and talk about these improvements, instead of the opposite.

  • Speak only about what you WANT, in wonderful ways, with kind and positive words to everyone, especially to yourself.

It’s all about how words make you feel. It’s in the feelings that the power is transmitted. Be the conduit of joy for yourself, as well as for everyone else so they will remember how you made them feel.

Have an absolutely magical week full of love, gratitude and fun, fun, FUN!

~Mary Lynn Ziemer

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