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Can One Person Transform a Relationship?

Updated: May 23, 2022

"Remember, nothing will change until you do." -Jack Canfield

Little Gems of Wisdom & Fun from Mary Lynn Ziemer

Is it possible for just one person transform a relationship? Doesn't it take "two to tango"? It may sound impossible, but it's actually not at all. In fact, I see it happen all the time! When we think, speak, and act differently, our belief about another person changes, and that person responds differently. Through our own beliefs and actions, we can transform all of our relationships (colleagues, significant others, friends, family, etc.) into a beautiful dance. We can turn them into pure bliss!

The first step in transforming any relationship is to simply begin thinking about and looking for the good in everything others do. When you notice these traits, compliment them! Also, share this feedback with others. As you change your belief and form this new habit, you are assured to get more of what you want in your relationships. Your new belief begins to take root and the outcomes change for the better. You'll see outcomes that are a win-win for both parties involved.

Smile as you spread only kind words and good news about others, then notice how good it makes YOU feel too. Commit strongly to this new rule of only engaging in positive conversations about a third party (even when they are not present). Stay silent, if necessary, to help you get started with this new way of engaging. In fact, make a conscious effort to say something nice about them. It’s important to be authentic for you to feel good though, so look a little more closely with an open heart. Search below the surface of your current view to find the golden nugget. There is always something good about another if you look closely enough. Look from a perspective of love and openness to unlimited possibilities. Make it a requirement of yourself and see how much better you feel, immediately.

What happens when you do this?

As you begin to expect to see the good in others, (by focusing solely on what you like with your thoughts, words, and actions) you’ll see even more of it. Little by little, or perhaps all at once, the other stuff will stop existing. It’s true! I have any number of clients who have created miracles of this nature with their bosses, colleagues, friends, and family members. When you see the results with just one person, you will want to take the next step and expand it to everyone in your life.

Not only do you and the recipients of your kindness feel great, but you begin to truly see the perfection in others. And they, in turn, will see the perfection in you! They will easily love and appreciate you more and more. Now your feelings of love are amplified, and that’s where your power lies... in the feeling of love.

Practice kindness and love every day, to yourself first, then to everyone else. As you do this, you will feel overwhelming happiness, joy, and a beautiful sense of calm. You’ll start to see real miracles occur in your relationships with others!

Have an absolutely magical week full of love, gratitude, and fun, fun, FUN!

~Mary Lynn Ziemer

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