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Check Yourself and Master Your Mood

"I don’t want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them." -Oscar Wilde

Little Gems of Wisdom & Fun from Mary Lynn Ziemer

It's time to check in with yourself. At various points throughout the day, stop and ask yourself, "How am I feeling right now, in this moment?" Then, it's important to think about what you're thinking about. What were your thoughts in the moments just prior that contributed to this feeling?

Here’s the key. Whatever you are thinking about (and your perspective about it) right now, it is causing you to feel a certain way. Your thoughts are the content in your reality. They represent the direction in which you are headed with the creative process. And your feelings are the fuel by which you create your reality. So, when you empower yourself by putting your focus and priority on feeling good, you pave the way to your next good-feeling experience. So, in fact, the very most important question to ask yourself is this: “What am I feeling right now?”

Why is this crucial in creating the most amazing life for yourself? Because only when we feel good, when we are living from our hearts, do we create what we truly desire. That’s why we need to check in with ourselves throughout the day and make sure we are feeling lots of love and gratitude. We also need to make sure we are having lots of fun!

How can you begin to feel even better?

Yes, we can always feel better! No matter how wonderful we feel, there is no limit to how much more wonderful we can feel. Love is limitless!

Lisa Feldman Barrett is a renowned neuroscientist and author of How Emotions are Made, Secret Life of the Brain states that, “Our emotions are not automatic, but rather can be practiced and programmed to result in new behavior. Ultimately, the bodily experience influences a subsequent emotion and action, thereby creating a self-fulfilling prophecy."

So, a new behavior creates a new outcome. Essentially, what you believe, you create.

Now, for the easiest and simplest way to feeling good fast. Love yourself, everyone and everything more than ever before. Send others love from your heart before you meet with them or talk to them on the phone. As you walk from point A to point B, imagine walking through the air that is love. Allow everyone the right to be perfectly on their path.

When we choose the most loving thoughts, words, and actions of love, gratitude, and fun, we always feel so good. And when you feel good, it’s easier than ever to create more of what you want in the only moment that matters... NOW.

Have an absolutely magical week full of love, gratitude, and fun, fun, FUN!

~Mary Lynn Ziemer

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