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YOU Have the Power to Transform Your Relationships

“Remember, nothing will change until you do.”  ~Jack Canfield

Little Gems of Wisdom & Fun from Mary Lynn Ziemer

Can one person transform a relationship? It sounds impossible, right? But, it's not at all. In fact, I see it happen all the time! Yes, it may take "two to tango," but... when we act differently, the other person responds differently. Through our own actions, we can transform all of our relationships (colleagues, significant others, friends, family, etc.) into a beautiful dance. We can turn them into pure bliss!

The first step in transforming any relationship is to simply begin looking for the good in everything others do. When you notice these traits, compliment them!  Also, share this feedback with others. As you form this new habit, you are assured to get more of what you want in your relationships.  Smile as you spread only kind words and good news about others, then notice how good it makes YOU feel too.  Be relentless with this change in yourself and you will get results!  Commit to this new way of relating to others in your life: only engage in positive conversations about a third party.  Hold true to this rule.  Stay silent, if necessary, to help you get started with this new way of engaging.  Only speak positively about another who is not present. In fact, make a conscious effort to say something nice about them. It’s important to be authentic in order for you to feel good though, so look a little more closely with an open heart. Search below the surface of your current view to find the golden nugget.  There is always something good about another if you look closely enough.  Look from a perspective of love and openness to unlimited possibilities.  Make it a requirement of yourself and see how much better you feel, immediately. What happens when you do this?  Not only do you and the recipients of your kindness feel great, but you begin to truly see the perfection in others. And they, in turn, will see the perfection in you! They will easily love and appreciate you more and more. Now your feelings of love are amplified, and that’s where your power lies... in the feeling of love. The more intense love and gratitude you feel for yourself and others, the more you recognize that you are receiving love in return. And the more this love grows, the faster you will reach your intentions and goals. As you begin to expect to see the good in others (by focusing with your thoughts, words and actions, solely on what you like), you’ll see even more of it. Little by little, or perhaps all at once, the other stuff will stop existing. It’s true!  I have any number of clients who have created miracles of this nature with their bosses, colleagues, friends, and family members. Remember, what you are focusing on is making you feel a certain way. And how you feel will either get you the outcome you want, or not.  So, be sure that you pay attention to only what you want when it comes to your perception of others.  In other words, their positive traits and actions will grow as you love yourself more and hold a newfound belief about them. When you see the results with just one person, you will want to take the next step and expand it to everyone in your life. Practice kindness and love every day, to yourself first, then to everyone else.  As you do this, you will feel overwhelming happiness, joy, and a beautiful sense of calm. You’ll start to see real miracles occur in your relationships with others!

Have an absolutely magical week full of love, gratitude, and fun, fun, FUN!

~Mary Lynn Ziemer

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