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Honor Your Uniqueness

"If you celebrate your differentness, the world will, too. It believes exactly what you tell it. Tell the world you are a one-of-a-kind creation who came here to experience wonder and spread joy." ~Victoria Moran

Little Gems of Wisdom & Fun from Mary Lynn Ziemer

Remember, your job today and everyday is to feel really really good. How you feel creates your reality, so it's important to keep your personal "love tank" full. This is the way to experience wonder, spread joy, and have more FUN!

How can you do this? Just follow these steps:

1. Every morning, picture in your mind what you would like your day to look like. Script your day from love. Feel lots of love and gratitude, have fun with it, and watch the magic unfold!

2. Make choices each and every moment of your day that feel good to you and bring you closer to reaching your goals. By doing this, you will create a foundation of happiness and calm that allows you to create more of what you truly want for yourself and others. Remember, you are literally creating your reality based on how you feel. As you grow in your consistent and intense feelings of love and gratitude, you will find a deep, inner place of calm. Your "love tank" will be full! Now, you can consciously decide what you would like and, in that moment, create the outcome that you want. You will see your world change in ways that your heart truly desires.

3. Use your thoughts, words, and actions wisely. These are your only tools, so make the best use of them! Choose to speak, think, and act only in ways that bring you feelings of calm and happiness. When you do, you will have an abundance of love and joy available for yourself and others. You are sure to always feel great, creating more of the outcomes you truly desire!

What is the number one most important thing in filling and keeping your "love tank" full?

First and foremost, you must know and feel love for your wonderful, unique self. Open your heart to you first, and recognize that you are special and brilliant. See your magnificence and completely accept the real you, knowing the power you hold within as you feel lots of love for you. If you're not sure what makes you tick, or what brings you inner peace and joy and makes you different, ask these questions:

"Who am I?"

"What are my gifts and talents?"

"What is my path to my greatness?”

If you need more clarity, try meditation, quiet time, a nature retreat, or simple prayer to ask these questions, and listen for guidance from within.

Just get quiet and place your hand on your heart. Now breathe in and out slowly with rhythm.

As you do this, focus on your heart. See your heart opening wide and filling with the brightest light of love that you can imagine. Now, visualize LOVE all around you like a cocoon, enveloping you and holding you in peace and calm. Know that you are cared for. Know that you are loved by LOVE, this great Source of Infinite Power that you hold within. As you feel, peace and calm, this is the time to ask your questions. Have a piece of paper and a pen nearby. Ask yourself questions like:

“What do I do well”

“What brings me joy?”

“What makes me feel awe?”

Whatever comes to you, write it down and take action on guidance you receive immediately.

Don't stop asking until you have clarity about them, and are happy with the world around you that you have created. Be sure to only compare yourself to you and your potential, as there is only one unique you. Remember, we are all created in the image and likeness of that Source of Infinite Power so your gifts and talents are there waiting to be used by you.

In fact, you are likely using them without even realizing it.

If you ever need guidance or clarity, go to your heart often for advice and the feeling of love. It is a wondrous and magnificent gift!

Go out and try new things that you’ve thought about and have always wanted to experience. Open your heart and your mind to new ways of being, thinking, and experiencing the world. Then, take a new adventure, big or small. Get out of your routine and have more fun today! Be lighthearted, like a child, and you will feel more joy. Use words that are joyful and fun. Be curious and feel the wonder of the "differentness" of yourself and others. Diversity is such a gift when your heart is open wide to see the beauty in everyone and everything, including you.

Know who you really are and embrace your differences. Allow others to be their unique selves too. Just focus on getting clear about what you want out of your life, what your joys and passions are, and pursue them. Relentlessly. Love yourself by keeping your love tank full so you can share it with others. It is the only way, as you can only give love to someone else if you first have it to give.

Keep going! Don’t give up until you find the answers that give you that deep peace which comes from knowing your truth, your very own purpose. Enjoy feeling more fun and awe with the world than ever before, and sheer joy and wonder as you script your life in a way that will make you happy with who you are!

Have an absolutely magical week full of love, gratitude, and fun, fun, FUN!

~Mary Lynn Ziemer

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