For More Powerful Relationships Create a New Story
"The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives." ~ Tony Robbins
Every great business person knows that the most important pillar of success lies in generating powerful relationships with other professionals. So, first and foremost, how can you turn your relationships around at work, so you truly feel like your job is your “daily fun adventure?”
The answer is quite simple. It really boils down to shifting from "autopilot" to living in the present moment. It means being fully aware of how you are showing up in the relationship as you engage and relate to others. Everything begins with you and how you feel, so it’s critical that you keep your equilibrium and you find a way to stay happy, calm, and even smile more. Remember, calm is your ticket to success every time.
How do you do this? Try relating to others through new eyes and a clean slate. Change your opinion of them to a favorable one. Create a new story about them that feels better. You are the author of your own book...so fill the pages with whatever you truly desire! Even if you have evidence of a less than joyful behavior in someone (or in yourself) ... it's time to let it go and move forward. Instead, bring happier thoughts of love and gratitude into the present moment. Think of things that make you feel good about that person or situation. Or, try to find humor in the situation or tell a joke. I know it may sound extreme, but have a good laugh at yourself if you can. Every situation can be changed with a little creativity. Remember, you create more of what you want by feeling good, so stay focused on the good stuff and let the rest roll off your back.
Research has proven that your brain filter goes in search of what you think about repeatedly, and your mind creates it in your reality. Even with the people in your life, they always reflect back to you, what you believe about them. So, make a conscious effort to change. As you begin changing your thoughts, words, and actions, you will begin to see a change in their words and actions towards you.
Whether it’s a co-worker, boss, client, or friend... positive, respectful, love-based relationships are essential to an enjoyable, daily, fun adventure. Try it. And remember that practice makes perfect! I promise, you will like the results you see.
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