Mary Lynn Ziemer
Always look for, and speak about, the good in others
"No matter what people tell you, words and ideas can change the world." ~Robin Williams
Look for the good in everything others do and compliment them. Notice what people around you do well, and share your feedback about them with others. Spread only kind words and good news, and notice how good it makes YOU feel too.
Stay focused on positive traits and actions of others. Truly let go, in your mind and your heart, of anything that is keeping you from feeling calm.
Commit to a new habit in your life: only engage in positive conversation about a third party. Hold true to the rule of never ever speaking anything but kindly about another who is not present. Make a conscious effort to say something nice about them. Find something to be grateful about when you speak of them. Make it a requirement of yourself and see how much better you feel immediately.
What happens when you do this? Not only do you and the recipients of your kindness feel great, but you begin to truly see the perfection in others. The shift that you make allows them to show up in a happier way. They begin to live up to your newfound belief about them. And they, in turn, will see the perfection in you! They will easily love and appreciate you more and more.
Try it, and look for even the smallest change. Then be grateful! When you see the results with just a few people, you will want to take the next step and expand it to everyone in your life.
Practice kindness everyday, to everyone, and you will feel overwhelming happiness and a beautiful sense of calm. And as you do, you create a life that you can absolutely love!
If this message inspired you, please forward it to a friend, colleague, client, or family member to brighten their day as well!
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